4 Harsh Truths that will make you a Better Person in 2018
If your relationships are working perfectly, your career is great, and you are generally just thrilled with every aspect of your life, this post may not be for you. But you could get some insight to sustain all the good in your life, so feel free to join in the reading. Our Modesto Car Service has decided to show you some tough love today by compiling a list of harsh truths that everyone needs to hear in order to be a better person this year.
The World Only Cares about What you have to Offer
If you feel like you keep getting rejected, disrespected, or left out, the reason for this is simple; our society is full of people with wants and needs and they only care about what you can do for them, what you have to offer them. People need fulfilling relationships, they need food, they need mutually beneficial friendships, they need entertainment, and so much more. So when you aren’t really contributing to the attainment of these wants and needs you are immediately thrown to the curb. It’s no one’s fault, it’s just the way humans, and even animals, are programmed. So focus on improving yourself, learn a new skill, be a better friend, be a better spouse, go back to school and push your career further. Earn your spot in the world; it will never be handed to you freely. Get yours.
The World owes you Nothing
As we have mentioned, nothing will be given to you freely. You could be the kindest, smartest, coolest, most intriguing human being on the planet, but if you are not exploiting those gifts, you are entitled to nothing for simply possessing them. The most successful people in the world are successful because they understand that you can either spend your time wallowing in self-pity or you can go out into the world with whatever gifts you have, whatever you have to offer, and claim what you have always wanted. So, are you ready to make the hard choice? Be the master of your own destiny.
You Don’t Have to Please Everyone
If you listen to what every single person in your life wants from you, you will wake up one day feeling emotionless, lifeless, and empty. It will dawn on you that you never really got to live your life the way you wanted, and the same people you let derail you will come around and tell you to ‘look alive’. The truth is, this is YOUR life and you can never please everyone if you really want to live your best life. There will always be people who are offended or dissatisfied by your choices, but as long as you are certain that the path you are on is leading you to your best life, do not be manipulated into thinking that saying ‘no’ is a bad thing.
Nobody is ever too Busy for You
At least not all the time; it’s all about priorities. So that friend who always has an excuse any time you want to meet for coffee and catch up, does not hold you in high regard, stop wasting your time and wait for them to look for you this year (or not). The sooner you stop making excuses for the people who don’t ever seem to have time for you, the sooner you will find people who actually hold you in high regard and want to spend time with you.